Resolve Family Disputes Out of Court
A kinder way to break up – alternatives to court.
If you’re experiencing a relationship breakdown, the last thing you need is the added stress and conflict that often comes with lengthy and costly court proceedings.
Out of court solutions, such as mediation, one couple one lawyer (often called joint representation), collaborative law, and arbitration, provide a more compassionate and efficient way to resolve your issues. These methods help you focus on what truly matters – your well-being, your family’s future and making thoughtful, informed decisions without the pressure and acrimony.
Our team, based in London and the South East, includes fully trained and accredited mediators, one couple one lawyer specialists and collaborative lawyers. Our family law specialists are committed to helping you find the best way forward that is right for you.
Putting your children first
If you have children, your priority is likely to be protecting them from the emotional impact of your separation. One of the best ways to support them through this change is by choosing an out of court solution to resolve matters with your ex amicably.
Out of court approaches aren’t just for divorce & separation
They can also help resolve other family disputes, such as disagreements over child arrangements, financial support, all without the need for court attendance.
By resolving your family dispute out of court you can save time and reduce costs, as these processes are typically faster and more affordable.
Importantly, you retain control over the outcome, working together to find solutions that meet everyone’s needs, while preserving privacy and dignity throughout the process. In court proceedings a judge will make a decision for you in the absence of your and your ex’s ability to do so. These decisions can often be what neither party wants.
What type of approach is right for me?
Choosing the right out of court approach depends on your specific situation and goals.
Mediation
Ideal if you want to maintain control and work with your ex to reach a solution that suits both parties. A neutral mediator guides discussions helping you find common ground – perfect for those looking to preserve relationships especially with children involved.
One couple one lawyer
The one couple, one lawyer service offers separating couples the option to work with a single solicitor for their divorce, child arrangements and financial settlements. This approach suits couples who can cooperate openly and amicably. Individual assessments are conducted to ensure the service suits the couple’s needs. This service promotes smoother, less adversarial resolutions while reducing time and costs.
Collaborative law
Excellent if you prefer a cooperative team approach where both parties and their solicitors work together to resolve issues without court. This method focuses on respectful negotiations with advice throughout whilst keeping the control in your hands.
Arbitration
Appropriate if you need a legally binding decision but want to avoid the formalities and delays of court. A jointly appointed arbitrator listens to both sides and makes a binding decision offering a quicker and more flexible resolution.
What clients say about us
Thomas Mansfield has an exceptional and highly collaborative team. Whenever my key point of contact has been away, issues are quickly picked up and dealt with by other members of the team, all of whom appear to have a great, collective and collaborative understanding of their clients’ issues.
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How to begin resolving your family issues.
At Thomas Mansfield, we provide a flexible and compassionate approach to resolving family issues, reducing stress and cost for everyone involved. Here's how to get started:
Get in touch. Call us or complete our callback form to discuss your situation. If we can't speak with you straight away we'll arrange a convenient time to discuss your case.
Identify the best approach. We'll listen carefully to your concerns and guide you through your options. Together, we'll identify the best approach for your circumstances.
Move forward with support. Once you decide on the right path for you, we'll begin the process and support you every step of the way.
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