Collaborative Law Solicitors

Avoid the stress of litigation with our specialist collaborative law solicitors. We guide you to bespoke & fair out of court resolutions.

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A specialist approach to collaborative divorce.

If you’re facing divorce or separation and want to keep things amicable, collaborative law could be the right approach. It focuses on finding mutually beneficial solutions for all involved, with the benefit of expert legal advice along the way.

Ultimately, the process can provide a legally binding agreement without the stress of going to court.

You, your partner and your respective collaboratively trained solicitors work together in a series of meetings to reach an agreement. The process covers legal, financial and practical aspects, including relationships with children and other family members.

Collaborative law gives you more control over the outcome, helping to reduce stress and maintain relationships.

Is collaborative law right for you?

Collaborative law works best for people who want to:

  • Avoid the hostility of court proceedings.
  • Reach a fair agreement with their children’s best interests in mind.
  • Maintain good relations with their former partner for the future.
  • Find a solution that’s fair.
  • Save time and money compared to going to court.

How does collaborative law work?

Not all family law solicitors are collaboratively trained so if collaborative is an option you wish to consider, do ensure you consult a collaboratively trained solicitor.

Once you decide on a collaborative law approach, your solicitor will explain the process and help you feel fully prepared before the first ‘four-way’ meeting with your partner and their solicitor.

What happens next

Before the first joint (four-way) meeting, your solicitor will coordinate with the other party’s lawyer to set an agenda and prepare for a respectful discussion. At the first four-way meeting, both parties will share their objectives and sign a participation agreement. This includes commitments such as:

  • Not going to court.
  • Prioritising the needs of any children involved.
  • Being honest and constructive in finding solutions.

Depending on the complexity of your case, several meetings might be needed. Your solicitor will assist you throughout, helping to resolve conflicts, ensuring full disclosure of information and preparing the final agreement.

Third party experts can be brought into the process to advise you individually and jointly on issues such as financial needs and pension matters.

Final agreement

Once all issues are resolved, a final meeting will be held to approve and sign the agreement. Your solicitor will then take steps to finalise and lodge with the court. Once the agreement has been approved by the judge it will become legally binding.

Meet our family solicitors

Why choose Thomas Mansfield for collaborative law?

At Thomas Mansfield Family Law, we bring a wealth of expertise and a client centred approach to collaborative law.

Our team includes highly trained collaborative law solicitors with extensive experience in resolving complex family issues.

Our excellence in family law is recognised by Legal 500 and Chambers & Partners, independent legal directories that assess firms based on client feedback and expertise.

With offices across London and the South East, as well as remote options, we provide the support you need, wherever you are.

With Thomas Mansfield, you can count on:

  • Expert guidance from experienced collaborative lawyers.
  • A personal approach focused on your goals and family’s well-being.
  • A commitment to reducing conflict and keeping the process as stress-free as possible.
  • A proven track record of success in helping clients achieve fair and lasting agreements.

Frequently asked questions

Preparation makes a big difference. Gather the key documents - especially anything financial - and think carefully about what you want to achieve. It also helps to be open to compromise and keep conversations respectful, even when emotions are running high. Speaking to your solicitor beforehand can clarify your legal position and give you a clear strategy, so you walk into the session feeling confident and ready.Speaking to your solicitor beforehand can clarify your legal position and give you a clear strategy, so you walk into the session feeling confident and ready.

It depends on the process. Agreements reached in family mediation or collaborative law aren’t legally binding unless they’re turned into a consent order approved by the court. Once that happens, the court can enforce the terms if someone doesn’t comply.Arbitration is different: the arbitrator’s decision is legally binding from the outset and enforceable like a court judgment. If one side ignores it, legal action can be taken - sometimes with financial penalties. Your family arbitration solicitor can explain your options if this becomes an issue. 

Arbitration is a private way of resolving disputes. You and your partner appoint an arbitrator, who acts much like a judge, to make a decision on finances or child arrangements. It’s often faster and more flexible than going through the courts, and it avoids the delays - and publicity - that court cases can involve.For many couples, arbitration provides a clear outcome in a quicker, more discreet setting.

Collaborative law means both you and your partner - and your solicitors - commit to resolving everything outside court. You’ll attend a series of face-to-face meetings, working together to agree on finances, property, and child arrangements.A key feature is that if the process breaks down, the solicitors involved can’t go on to represent you in court. That rule helps keep everyone focused on reaching an agreement.

Yes. Increasingly, couples are choosing the ‘one couple, one lawyer’ approach. This works best when both partners are broadly in agreement and want an amicable process. The solicitor provides neutral guidance and helps ensure everything is handled fairly. If major disagreements arise, though, separate legal advice may still be needed.

Absolutely. Mediation, arbitration, and collaborative law can all be used to decide where children live, how much time they spend with each parent and the financial support they receive. These processes give parents more control, encourage cooperation and focus on the child’s best interests - often producing more practical solutions than a court might impose.

Arbitration awards are legally binding straight away. Mediation and collaborative law agreements only become binding once they’re formalised in a court-approved consent order. Your solicitor can make sure this step is taken so there’s certainty and enforceability going forward.

Mediation involves sitting down with a trained mediator, who helps you and your partner talk through issues like money, property and arrangements for your children. The mediator doesn’t take sides but helps keep discussions focused and constructive.Mediation is usually quicker, less stressful and less costly than going to court. Any agreement you reach can later be made legally binding through a consent order.

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